A different viewpoint and a new start to my blog

When I started this blog it was mostly so that I could keep up with where I have been. It was to serve as my personal travel diary. I've been on the road for 9 months now and am realizing that my journey is about more than just where my wheels take me and my 'toaster' each week. There is a deeper journey, one that explores who I am, seeks to enrich my personal self and seeks to develop meaningful connections.

As with anything in life, its easy to get distracted. Find ourselves falling into old patterns rather than new growth. I hope to use this blog to help keep me on track. I hope that some of the journey's I take and explorations I make will help you on your journey too.

With that, a little intro about me, why I chose this blog name and what's next in my journey.

About Me
I'm a single lady of working age with a daughter in Louisiana who loves to hike, kayak, explore the outdoors and make new friends. I'm an outgoing introvert. I struggle with leading a healthy lifestyle. This is important to me because of my family's health and how good I feel when I am healthy.

Why the Tethered Toaster?
I played with many names, like Journey Squared, Tethered Travels and others, but alas, they were taken! I thought of Tethered Gypsy but found that gypsy represents a people and I do not have that heritage.  I chose tethered, because due to my remote work for my company I am always required to be somewhere where I have good connectivity. I chose toaster because of my Airstream. Kind of looks like a big toaster doesn't it?

What's Next?
As I move from this point, my journey will focus on several things: increasing my interpersonal awareness, finding a balance with a healthier lifestyle and exploring new skills and talents such as learning to play the violin, getting better at yoga and speaking a new language.

Thank you for sharing my journey with me, I look forward to meeting you down the road!

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I might be a desert girl after all!?

Heading West across Texas was a long day's drive. I set out to do this in 2 days but just didn't find anything to hold my interest for stops and kept driving until next thing I knew I was almost to Deming, NM!  I have never seen so much roadkill in my life. I'm not just talking small animals, I saw at least 3 large deer, a few domestic pets and many small to medium animals. There wasn't much in the way of scenery and as I was driving I kept thinking that this really wasn't my kind of landscape.

I will say, El Paso was crowded, trafficky, small lanes with the city almost on top of the interstate. Very glad I didn't stay there. Instead I stayed at an Escapees park called Dreamcatcher RV in Deming, NM. The park is nice with good level gravel, spacious sites, nice small trees throughout (they were much prettier when I arrived - cold came!). They have activities, laundry, club house, shower and you can use the pool and exercise room at the hotel next door. Only drawback is Deming is at 4300' elevation, so on my second day here I was introduced to temperatures at night in the low 20's, a whole new experience for me.

I discovered by surprise that I truly do find this landscape beautiful. There is such serenity in being able to see miles and miles with no obstructions; no trees, no buildings, just open land. The sunrises and sunsets have such beautiful colors and you can truly enjoy them all around you. I went out and hiked at Rock Hounds State Park and Spring Canyon. Spring Canyon was a .9 mile hike up to the top of the ridge. It was pretty steep and slippery (loose rocks and gravel) in many places, but it was worth the hike to the top! I couldn't stay very long because of gusty winds making me nervous, but super glad I made the trek.

Panorama of the front side of the Spring Canyon trail.

View from the ridge looking to the other side.

On my way up!

Thunder egg trail at Rock Hound.

I also started some new good morning habits here, starting my day out with a 15 minute Yoga morning routine and 10 minute meditation. It feels good and sets the tone of my day! I was hoping to do some sunset yoga outside this evening, but instead it has turned cloudy, grey and windy. Deming also has a winery, St. Claire's, and tonight they have live music in the evening that I am looking forward to enjoying.

I met a nice couple that is also headed to Quartzsite and gave me their card and some places to check out. I look forward to meeting more new people on my journey. 

Tomorrow I head to Phoenix, AZ to put my Airstream in the shop this week (possible leak :$) and will be flying out to Irvine, CA for my work for a few days. When I return, it's onto Quartzsite!

-As always, lack of proper grammar, made up words and poor punctuation is a result of lack of care! 

Back on the Road

It's been awhile since my last post :) After leaving North Carolina I headed for Letchworth State Park in NY. This was a beautiful place, known as the Grand Canyon of the East. I visited Niagara Falls and Colton RV.

Guess what! I bought an Airstream! It's a 2016 Flying Cloud 23FB and I love it!

After that I went back to Raleigh, NC to visit with a friend and then had to head back to Baton Rouge, LA to deal with my daughter's car and my house damages. That took almost 2 months but now I'm back on the road!

I'm in Houston/Willis, TX area for a month visiting family and then I head to Quartzsite, AZ for the winter.

Hope to see you on the road!

Leg 1 of my journey on a map!

Bryson - Sylva, NC here I am!

I am staying at this great little campground outside of Bryson City, NC called Smoky Mountain Meadows RV park (I'll do a full write up when I leave). In the evenings you can actually sit outside without being eaten alive. Outside my RV in the open field I am able to enjoy fire bugs lighting up everywhere! Even had one almost land on me.

One of the views from my RV! Most nights I sleep with just a fan and open all my windows so I can wake up to a view of these moun

The only drawback to this picturesque mountain town is wi-fi/cellular. Verizon is very limited everywhere. I have barely any signal at the campsite. With my booster I can just barely make a phone call and in town the library and businesses have slow wi-fi. As such I drive 19 miles over to Sylva, NC every day where the library there has blazing fast wi-fi. Towns have vibes. Bryson City feels like a tourist town. You either are a local or a tourist. But in Sylva its a real working small town where I feel welcome and have already made connections. 

The library where I work. Just a short walk to main street Sylva. Hours aren't great, they don't open till 10am, but you can always sit outside on their rockers and still access the wi-fi.

View from 2nd floor of library. Great office window!

Split rock on a trail at the near by Pinnacle National Park. This is a far as I made it on this very steep trail! Out of shape, am I!

The trail is all straight up. I made a new friend, Sheila, who was out for her first walk after eye surgery.

One nice thing about the area is that there is always hiking near by. So I can take a hike before or after work without having to drive far. In Bryson city you can easily get to the road to nowhere. It's a road that was being built and then not finished so it just stops. I didn't really enjoy this trail because the tunnel freaked me out (its longer than it looks). I've noticed that once I get a little scared by something on a trail my fear just keeps compounding and I stay in a slightly easily panicked state the rest of the trip (something for me to work on).

The tunnel.

End of the road! Just forest and some trails after.

I guess the road to nowhere needs some trails to nowhere. Just drops off the edge of the mountain (yes I know its runoff line).

For the weekend I did two great activities, first I went for a hike near Bryson City called Deep Creek. I was originally going to just do a short 4 mile loop but decided I wasn't done hiking when I hit my turning point and continued on. Overall I did 12.6 miles. Not too bad except where it went straight up for 1.5 miles or straight down for 1.5 miles. This is such a beautiful day hike. It took me 6.5 hours with little to no breaks (I'm a slow hiker though). There are plenty of campsites available and some longer trails that could turn this into an overnight. However, the campsites are at lower elevations so I wouldn't recommend during major bug season.

You are near water most of the hike.

There are 3 or 4 different waterfalls.

These fungi are cool!

The next day I met up with the Foothills Paddling Club at Brookside Camp on the Nanthala for a day of rafting. I had enjoyed this activity with them a month ago when I was in Greenville, SC and it was just as much fun (but with a much shorter drive!). The river is a bit low right now because of drought they are doing later and shorter dam releases. Pictures from a company of our raft going over the last rapid.

So far I'm really enjoying this area. Looking forward to going backpacking this weekend!

North Carolina Beautiful Paddles

A group I met in Wilmington, NC is paddling to a place called Bear Island in August. I won't be here then but I hate to miss out on such a fun trip so I started to look into the place to go myself. I ended up finding a great website devoted to paddling guides for East North Carolina called Beautiful Paddles. Great job they do outlining the trip, providing maps, insider tips and pictures. I decided to do 2 trips from this site.

Thursday evening (7/14) I did the New Bern trail. A 3 hour paddle near by. It was a warm day but a beautiful paddle. Long day considering I also have to pack up so that I can get out of here Saturday evening.  It was a beautiful paddle, I found the hidden 'lake' and saw a beaver/otter swimming by multiple times. I didn't do the full circuit as storms were coming but a nice paddle overall.

There were birds of prey in the trees.

Friday I woke up, went to early Yoga, put in a day's work and then headed to do my next paddle. This was an overnight camping paddling to a place called Bear Island, a part of Hammocks Beach State Park. I booked a primitive camp site for Friday night on the beach side, campsite #6. Upon arriving at the park you have to leave something of yours to use the cart to get your kayak down to the dock where they have great canoe/kayak launches. When I arrived winds were around 12-14 mph with white caps. I was in for a long paddle! Little did I know. I had done a poor job reading the details from beautiful paddles and only remembered in my head to follow the orange markers. I thought that meant the orange buoys. It did not! 2.5 hours later, after paddling against strong head winds with gusts,  I finally arrived at the beach. There were times as I was paddling as hard as I could but moving only inches, it seemed, I started to think how tired I was and how hard. But I know that attitude matters and by reminding myself that I was out here because I enjoyed it, because I wanted to enjoy the scenery and paddling to a place I can't get to by foot, I quickly turned my mind around. As soon as I quit my negative attitude and reminded myself why I was here, without even thinking about it the words 'This is Awesome!' came to me. A reminder to me and others that your attitude can make the difference between a good and a bad experience, that even when things aren't going your way, how you think about it, will determine how you experience it.

Campsite # 6. Directly to the left of where you land your kayak. Awesome site! Note for paddlers, make sure you are there at high tide or you will not be able to get through the lagoon to paddle to the back side of the campsites.

I was able to get my tent set up with minutes to spare before a storm came. Thankfully it quickly cleared. The beach was awesome, I loved my campsite, I loved the beach, I loved the quiet. The biting bugs were a hassle once the sunset and before full sunrise (vicious creatures) but overall it was a nice stay.

I returned home Saturday morning, finished packing up and started my drive to my next location. I was supposed to leave on Sunday but it's over 7 hours of driving and that's a bit much in an RV. I decided to leave Saturday night and camped in a great rest stop on I-40.

Eating in and around New Bern, NC

Places I tried while here and my thoughts:

Baker's Kitchen Restaurant & Bakery - Cute little place downtown. Great service until its check time, then they get super slow. Big crowd on Saturday morning. Food was okay. First time I had Chicken Fried Steak with scrambled eggs. Eggs were cooked well, biscuit was super moist and tasty, but chicken fried steak and gravy almost seemed frozen (even though they say nothing is) and a bit greasy. Second time I had a basic breakfast, two eggs over medium, bacon and their baker's potatoes (hashbrown casserole). Eggs were undercooked, bacon was good, casserole was ok. Overall I would say the place is average and works if you are downtown needing a bit, but I think I'll keep exploring.

El Cerro Grande - Craving mexican, decided to stop in and check 'em out. Super inexpensive. Fun decor. Really good tacos. I had the Taquira, which is the style with cilantro and onion instead of lettuce and cheese and such. The tortillas were homemade, the carne asada and el pastor seasoned well and the green sauce was tasty but not too spicy for a gringo like me! Service was fast.  You pay at the register when you are done.  I'd eat here again. Next time I want to try the Gorditas as they are hand made tortillas too. BTW they also serve cow head, tongue and tripe tacos!

Lawson's Landing Cafe - Stopped here mostly to work. Sat outside right on the water. Service was really good. Had a fantastic red table wine for $6. Just got an app, bruschetta with mozzarella added. It was very large and filled me up. Was okay. I wasn't blown away but I was happy with my food.

Morgan's Tavern & Grill - Swung by for lunch. They are located downtown. I went with a burger and salad. The burger was super tasty. They use ground steak, brisket and sirloin for their burgers and season and grill them well. The salad was good with nice ranch (I'm picky, I don't like tangy bottled junk)! Service was good, atmosphere was good.

The Deck at the Double Tree - My first night in I wanted to explore. Stopped here because it was on the water, had live DJ that night and seemed fun. I ordered a drink and burger at the bar and then sat down. The first guy I ordered from at the bar seemed like he was on vacation, luckily the bar tender was on spot. After a long while I flagged a waitress asking about my food and a drink refill. They seemed to have forgotten, Mr. On Vacation came out with my food, cold. I think it would have been tasty if it had been warm, but blue cheese on cold beef, not super good. Drink refill or water never came. Walked up to bar, asked for drink and water, mentioned cold food. The second bar tender, was also on spot and apologized, gave me both my drink and water for free and was quick. I would have liked to stay and enjoy, but a large family decided to swarm the benches surrounding me (literally one of their knees practically in my back) and then started using my table to sit and talk at. So overall, I left not wanting to return.

MJs Raw Bar - Stopped in for lunch after yoga. Great fresh crab cake sandwich.

Bay Leaf - A good little Indian restaurant with lunch buffet. Reminded me of Bay Leaf in Baton Rouge!

Paso Fino (Wilmington) - Would definitely come here again. House made items from various latin influenced countries. Super friendly owner. The Pinot Noir was actually pretty good. Shag dance lessons on Tuesday nights.

Unexpected fun and a city off my list!

One of the great things about travelling, while keeping an open mind, is the unexpected. Today, I

traveled to Wilmington, NC (2 hour drive) to meet up with a new backing group from Meetup.com. Decided to travel down early and just work from there for the day. Well that didn't go quite as smooth as last time (did the same thing last week to meetup with kayaker to paddle the Intercoastal). First, I thought it would be fun to work from the library downtown so I could walk it at lunch. The library started off with a 2 hour parking limit (was told to move my car every 2 hours when I asked about being there all day), next they had several police officers and lots of rules about bags. Turns out this is where individuals with no daytime employment hang out. It was noisy and the conversations, hard to drown out!

Rant Warning! I mean seriously, in your top three bills you pay a month is satellite TV when you don't have a job?!?! Wow the lives of the priviledged impoverished.

So I moved from there to Barnes & Nobles. Which was fine till the Internet cut me off. This isn't the first time so I am beginning to think they have a limit per device.  Next I moved to the library I used last week but they close at 5 and I had a 5 and 6 oclock meeting.

By random luck I found a local authentic Latin place called Paso Fina (fresh food, nice staff) and today they have Shag dance lessons.  So although I have a 7 o'clock meeting I'm going to stick around till 7 to enjoy at least 30 minutes of this stumbled upon awesomeness!!

BTW that slide finger typing thing that devices can do, totally neat (first time using! )

I ended up chatting with this great group of people from the backpacking loop for longer than expected so never made it back to Shag dance. The location we were at, Brewers Kettle and Wine, had a great patio and beer selection.

To sum it up, I've spent 2 days in Wilmington now and find it to be just another crowded large city. Not on my future list of places to revisit. However, I never made it to TopSail which was recommended so I will have to remember to visit there next time.